Use any VGA dispay with your FriendlyARM Mini2440 or Micro2440-SDK. The LCD to VGA converter connects to the LCD output. It has the same form factor and mounting holes as the 3.5" LCD and the same extra long cable to allow remote mounting. The VGA can support 1024x768, 800x480, and other formats. Note: You must load a keyboard enabled kernel (included), not a touch pad kernel since touching your VGA monitor will likely have no (desirable) effect!
To get an embedded VGA system, just order the Mini2440 or Micro2440-SDK and one of these VGA converter/adapters.